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LadyAnara · Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2006 7:58 pm Post subject: The soul bonded

I had no idea where too put this, as it fit in about five catagories, move it if it belongs some place better. Smile

Anyways I was wondering if you had found someone whom you were soul bonded too (not blood bonded too..that only enhances a bond if its allready present between two souls) and theyw ere not interested in being bound too you anymore if there was a magick or a ritual too break that which bound you together.
I have found such a person who does not want too be bound too me and its feeling like its killing my soul. I need help any and all help appreciated. if you'd like too im me about it spiralfaerymage@yahoo.com
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Eclecta · Posted: Sat Apr 15, 2006 9:38 pm Post subject:

How long has the bond been there? And yes, I realize this is kinda personal, but why not continue being bonded? Also, is the bond natural or that made by magick?
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cathmael · Guest

The obvious answer is "help the person who is bonded to you and turn the
connection around".

I suppose you could visualize cutting the connection, ritualize it with a blade, etc,
or even symbolically draw the connection on a medium and then visually
destroy the connection that way. I'd avoid using fire for visualization for this one.

Just be really sure you want to do this, and have some time for your karma/trauma to clear (you won't escape from this cleanly, as you are doing harm).

I would strongly advise taking the first option.

immortalglitch · Joined: 28 Mar 2006 Posts: 11 Location: Marietta, GA

I fully agree with Cathmael, this is not a procedure to undertake without first expending your other options.

Before I would give advice in this situation I would like to know more about the bonding: how was the bond forged, did they consent to the bond in the first place, is this a situation where it is a long term relationship that has just ended?

If you are not comfortable answering those questions, then please don't feel obligated to answer them, I would just like to give the most situation specific advice is all.
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Eclecta · Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 5:08 pm Post subject:

ImmortalGlitch, don't think Anara is ignoring you, she only visits the site once every couple weeks or so, but eventually she'll wander back in and see your response.
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figment · Joined: 07 Nov 2005 Posts: 54 Location: Smyrna

Bonds are mental and only mental. The ceremony behind it is only added because humanity has a bond to ceremony. If this person wants rid of the bond, then the person's bond to you is already gone. All that's left is your bond to her. There is no need for a ceremony, it will only bring drama between you two. It is time for you to let go of your attachment, and it's best to do that alone. Remember, attachment brings suffering because nothing, nothing, nothing lasts forever. Not even a soul bonded.

prince dax · Guest